â Today's Promise: "He will turn the hearts of the parents to their children, and the hearts of the children to their parents; or else I will come and strike the land with total destruction.â Malachi 4:6
~ Tiffany in New Jersey
Dear brides, please remember apart from God we can do nothing, remember your Heavenly Husband will bless you with what youâre praying for. Donât try to control the situation or take it into your own hands, ask your Heavenly Husband and He will do it for you like heâs doing it for me. Trust me my sisters in Christ it will be so much sweeter that way and our HH (Heavenly Husband) will receive glory, the glory that He so righteously deserves.
Initially I thought that if you wanted to restore a relationship with someone you have to constantly call them, look for them, beg for their forgiveness, even nag them because I thought that if you donât do these things, the person youâre trying to be restored to is gonna think you didnât fight for them but I learned differently. Thank you my Lord, thank you my Heavenly Husband Iâm still learning of course itâs better to leave everything in God's hands. Trust God to restore your relationships. Iâm learning to not reach out to that person, to give them their space. Iâm learning that if they reach out to you itâs best to speak to them calmly and with love, patience and not a lot of words lol
Yesterday was my birthday and my oldest daughter doesnât really speak to me. In the beginning I used to constantly message her but Iâm learning not to. Iâm learning to wait until she reaches out to me and I asked God Lord I would love to hear her say happy birthday. And we actually spoke a few times on my birthday very briefly she was asking me for some money so that she can buy something that she needed and of course I told her no problem but she didnât wish me a happy birthday and I was sad but I was still trying to be thankful because two of my other children wished me a happy birthday, but some thing in my heart was still longing to hear a happy birthday from her. Iâll admit and please Lord forgive me I was thinking about ways to manipulate her into getting a happy birthday but Heavenly Husband showed me that was not the way.
So I was sleeping and it was literally like 5 oâclock in the morning and she left me a message saying, Iâm sorry I thought it was the 11th and not the 12th I got my days mixed up I didnât forget, happy late birthday. I just want to give God all glory and honor and praise because the Lord blessed me with what I asked for and it was so much better because I did not have to pressure her and she's doing it but the Lord did it.
I would like to continue to trust God to restore my relationships. I would like to continually remember that I can have Joy in the waiting room and even if I cannot see God working, I know He is and even when I have a bad day I know that that doesnât mean that itâs gonna last forever because my Heavenly Husband is so wonderful He gives me peace even when I donât ask for it.
Dear brides, I know itâs not easy because as humans it is natural for us to take things into our own hands but please try to let your Heavenly Husband handle things. I know itâs not easy but remember you have nothing to lose when you let God fight your battles.
"He will turn the hearts of the parents to their children, and the hearts of the children to their parents; or else I will come and strike the land with total destruction.â Malachi 4:6
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